The Three Marks of Existence
Buddhism has been described as a very pragmatic religion.
It does not indulge in metaphysical speculation about first causes; there
is no theology, no worship of a deity
or deification of the Buddha. Buddhism takes a very straightforward
look at our human condition; nothing is based on wishful thinking, at
all. Everything that the Buddha taught was based on his own observation
of the way things are. Everything that he taught can be verified
by our own observation of the way things are.
If we look at our life, very simply, in a straightforward way, we see
that it is marked with frustration and pain. This is because
we attempt to secure our relationship with the "world
out there", by solidifying our experiences in some
concrete way. For example, we might have dinner with someone we admire
very much, everything goes just right, and when we get home later we
begin to fantasize about all the things we can do with our new-found
friend, places we can go etc. We are going through the process of trying
to cement our relationship. Perhaps, the next time we see our friend,
she/he has a headache and is curt with us; we feel snubbed, hurt, all
our plans go out the window. The problem is that the "world
out there" is constantly changing, everything is
impermanent and it is impossible to make a permanent relationship
with anything, at all.
If we examine the notion of impermanence closely and honestly, we see
that it is all-pervading, everything is marked by impermanence. We might
posit an eternal consciousness principle, or higher self, but if we
examine our consciousness closely we see that it is made up of temporary
mental processes and events. We see that our "higher
self" is speculative at best and imaginary to begin
with. We have invented the idea to secure ourselves, to cement our relationship,
once again. Because of this we feel uneasy and anxious, even at the
best of times. It is only when we completely abandon clinging that we
feel any relief from our queasiness.
These three things: pain, impermanence
and egolessness are known as the three marks of existence.